I asked editor and reviewer, Anthionette Ejimofor to review my book, Peace in Passing: Comfort for Loving Humans During Animal Transitions. Her insights astounded me, so I decided to share the review with you. Because at some point, we’re all going to have to navigate the last leg of our beloved animal companions’ life.
“I’ve read a lot of books this year, but Peace in Passing by Maribeth Coye Decker stands out as the highlight so far. Interestingly, it’s one of the few non-fiction books I’ve actually finished this year— but it was worth every page.
“This book explores a path many hesitate to tread, offering a deeper understanding of the bond we share with our animal companions, whether they are alive or transitioning from this life. It gently nudges readers to appreciate and honor these relationships on a level that truly does them justice.
“With 274 pages, 21 chapters, and a lengthy introduction, Peace in Passing is an extensive read. While it leans toward the longer side, Decker’s expert insights make the journey worthwhile.
“Decker guides readers in opening their minds to the real possibility of connecting intuitively with animals— both in life and after they have passed. She invites us to witness the wonders of their existence in ways many of us never considered.
“She also debunks several misconceptions. One particularly striking myth she challenges is the old yet widely accepted idea that animals— whether pets or experimental subjects— should be treated like “biological machines.” She argues that animals, like humans, have “memories, thoughts, feelings, wants, likes, and dislikes.” It’s a perspective that makes you rethink everything you assumed about animal consciousness.
“Decker also strongly refutes the idea that death marks the end of the human-animal connection. She presents compelling reasons to believe that animals, much like humans, may indeed “survive death.”
“Furthermore, she shares surprising insights, including one that caught me completely off guard: Did you know that older animals often sense when they are about to transition and sometimes stay longer just to prepare their human companions for their passing? I was as shocked as you are.
“That said, I deeply connected with Chapter Fourteen: “Visits After Death.” Here, Decker draws parallels between losing a human loved one and losing a pet, and she discusses the experience of seeing or sensing them after they’ve passed.
“What struck me most was her gentle reminder: Holding on too tightly to someone you’ve lost— whether human or animal— can make it harder to fully move forward. That perspective resonated with me in ways I didn’t expect.
“Decker’s illustrative and educational approach shines throughout the book, enriched by numerous pictures and notes that reinforce her expert opinions. I also appreciated her thoughtful decision to begin each chapter with a quote that encapsulates the core theme. It’s a simple yet effective way to give readers a sense of direction before diving into each topic. Nice touch, Maribeth!
“And the stories— oh, the stories! They were the icing on the cake. Decker’s real-life anecdotes brought everything to life, making the book not just informative but also deeply engaging.
“For all these reasons, I give Peace in Passing a solid five out of five stars. The book is creative, insightful, and innovative, offering a fresh perspective on the human-animal bond.
“If you’re an animal lover, this book is for you. Somewhere along the way, you’ll realize you made the right choice picking it up.”
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